Darold Dowling
February 10, 1947 - July 20, 2025
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Darold "Butch" D. Dowling, age 78, of rural Argyle, WI, passed away Sunday, July 20, 2025, at UW-Hospital in Madison, WI. Butch was born on February 10, 1947, in Dodgeville, WI., the son of Theodore "Ted" and Thelma (Guist) Dowling. He grew up in Mineral Point, Wisconsin, graduating from Mineral Point High School before attending the Farming Short Course at UW-Madison. Following his education, Butch proudly served his country in the United States Marines, including a tour in Vietnam and postings in Hawaii and California.
After his military service, Butch married his first wife, Mary Miller, on August 23, 1969, and they began their family in Mt. Horeb, Wisconsin. Throughout his life, Butch, alongside his family, provided a loving home for over 60 foster children, leaving an immeasurable impact on countless lives.
Following his retirement, Butch moved to Argyle, where he met the love of his life, Judy Parmer. They were married in 2015 and have since shared a joyful life together.
Butch was a devoted member of Yellowstone Lutheran Church in rural Argyle. He was also a proud member of Argyle American Legion Post #251 and the Deer Creek Sportsman Club in Mt. Vernon. In his free time, Butch found immense joy in the outdoors, whether he was hunting, fishing, riding horses, or simply appreciating nature. He also had a fondness for collecting unique odds and ends.
Butch is survived by his beloved wife, Judy, at home; his children, Noelle (Anne-Marie Lozeau) Dowling of Middleton, Wisconsin, and Adam (his companion: Scotti Adrian) Dowling of Mt. Horeb, Wisconsin; three adopted children, Rebecca (Ryan Olstad) Dowling of Madison, WI., Nigel Dowling of Madison, WI., and Danny Dowling of Mt. Horeb, WI., stepchildren: Dennis Parmer and Cynthia Parmer. He is also survived by his cherished grandchildren, Thianna and Collen Bergholtz, Kolt Parmer, Kaylee Learman, Finn and Harper Patenaude, Oumou, Aicha, Ismael Dowling, Logan and Serena Parmer; one great grandchild: Lane Bergholtz; his sister, Dixie (Neil) Geiger of Kaukauna, Wisconsin, along with several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents.
A prayer service will be held August 5, 2025, at the Erickson Funeral Home in Argyle (801 E. Milwaukee, St. Argyle WI, 53504) from 3:30PM- 3:45 PM with Pastor Daniel Bohlman officiating. A visitation will be held August 5, 2025, from 4:00 PM- 7:00PM at the Erickson Funeral Home in Argyle (801 E. Milwaukee, St. Argyle WI, 53504). A celebration of life will be held August 30, 2025, from 1:00PM-6:00PM at his home in rural Argyle. The Erickson Funeral Home in Argyle is assisting the family. Online condolences may be expressed at www.ericksonfuneralhome.com.
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Badger Honor Flight
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On behalf of the Badger Honor Flight Board and all our volunteers, we extend our deepest condolences to you all, the family of Darold Dowling. We are grateful for his service to our great country. What an honor it was for us to take him on his well-deserved trip of a lifetime. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Marnette Voeltz
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It was such a pleasure working with Butch at AT&T. We had so much fun at the garage and he was such a gentleman. We had many good conversations. RIP Butch - you will be missed. Marnette Voeltz
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Judith Patenaude
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Sincere condolences to you Judy and all Darold’s grandchildren. He was always so easy to talk to, know and like. I know he leaves many loving memories behind. Sincerely, Judith Patenaude
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Jenny Johnson
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My heart is sad when I think about Butch just not being there. We have been friends for a life time. Butch lived with my family and helped on the farm when he was in high school. His happy personality brought laughs and joy to all of us. Over the years I knew if I needed him he would be there and he could count on me. We shared a friendship like brother and sister. He was the best.
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Shirley Holzhueter
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How I will remember Butch, a man of Great Humor, Humbleness, Kind, and Love for Others. I was Blessed to have him as my Brother-in-Law. Shirley and Lynn
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Shirley Holzhueter
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A man of Great Humor, Humbleness, Kindness and Love. I was honored to have him as my brother-in-law. Shirley and Lynn